i'm glad it went well too, Glitch. =)

UGH
my bff decided we were supposed to hang out today and the plan was to stay home and watch anime
next thing I know we went to 8 stores looking for an ugly xmas sweater.
Finally back and FINALLY cooking dinner
Tonight is a sausage and potato with green been bake to serve over rice =3
similar to this but not?
http://spicysouthernkitchen.com/oven...sage-potatoes/

i miss when friends came around to take me out to do fun stuff xD

I would take you out randomly
That's a lie
I would be willing to nab you and take you back to my house though XD
Sometimes I like going out, but mostly I would like to stay home SINCE I NEVER GET TOO
Man
I got a xmas card from my grandparents and you can just read the sadness in their tone of voice >.> It makes me feel terrible but NO ONE likes my grandpa's partner....
I should keep in mind to take them to dinner soon next year as a surprise and just sit with them and stop being a terrible grandchild...

Awe you can't let yourself feel like that. But you should take them out if you want too!

Well the thing is really
No one involves my grandpa in anything, except for us because of my father. They would stop over every other weekend for coffee for a few hours and sit and talk with us about the rest of the family (I don't know how many times we would hear the same stories until someone else decided to involve them or call them)
WELL dad's been gone for almost 5 years now, so that's the amount of time they have had less contact with everyone, because you know damn well the rest of the family didn't all of a sudden grow a heart >.>
I wanted to take him out for his birthday, or randomly stop in at dennys and prepay for their tuesday dinner meal they have every tuesday
but life man D: every time I plan something like that life comes up and slaps me in the face with no chances to do what I want D:
And his partner.. "grandma donna" is what she asked us to call her. They've been together for 18 years now but he refuses to marry her. She's a real busybody and likes to share all the gossip with everyone (Including telling my dads ex-wife about his job so she could get more out of his child payments, yet the girls said they got no money from my dad? idk we never had money because we were paying for his child support but apparently they never got it so I'm assuming their mom just took it and never told them.)
So she is more then a problem starter/shit stirrer.

Sensitive information I guess? idk.


So overall there are more then a few factors to this situation that make it a back and forth issue if that makes sense?

That is quite the pickle. He is still your grandpa, and your happy memories won't change. I think personally, it is important to try and do little things now and then or you may regret it when he is gone . . but maybe you won't I don't know we are all different.

I think when you have a day that you can do one of the things you want to do, do it. But when you simply can't, don't beat yourself up about it ok <3

….. That is a tough situation.

Don't know what actually happened but maybe you should talk about it? It happened a long time ago and he probably has some regrets about it. Also as I have worked with a few sometimes it is a misunderstanding, like the 2 teenagers who sent nudes to each other and because they had those nudes after they turned 18 the NC law decided to charge them both as child sex offenders.

It is a good thing but yeah it does need some revamping in certain areas. Over all it needs to be kept though.

HE has not personally told him myself, it was a moment my parents were drunk they let it slip. So it might be awkward to bring it up to him, plus he's half deaf so thinking and visualizing me trying to loudly discuss it with him seems like a nightmare XD
Thank you guys for the support! The hubby and I have been talking the past week and we think we are going to take them out to eat somewhere next month. Maybe we can get 2 birds with one stone and take his grandma out too?

that sounds like a good plan ^_^

it is mostly just the new set XD

It probably would o3o
And yup they'll be in lavish luxuries forever ^_^ plenty of time

Oh gosh I forgot there was another half.
-Looks at aurum count- That counter is going to cry very soon.

eeh, i feel like being lazy

Yeah, they cost a pretty penny but they are so pretty *makes grabby hands for all time*

so what cods are you saving for?

is it? XD i thought it was about being stressed and broke and cold?

Hey guys! How's it going tonight?

going ok~ i just broke 9k au

@ littl: I just donated a bunch of snowflakes after buying all the items in the event store, and that is so awesome! 9K is amazing!

nice! i was hoping for more snow tho' X''D

What do you mean? did you not get all the items? You have until January 4, I think the event ends that day.

i mean for my avatar XD

uuuh, that was not clear XD i mean like i have snowflakes on my avatar, i was hoping there were new snow/snowflake items

who is selling them to you? or do you have multiple sellers?

@ littl oh okay, and I'm sorry I did not understand, at night I'm not the brightest tool in the shed hahaha. Your avi looks great.

@Lee I love your avi, I try not to quest anything after Ernya and all that questing and all those items lost to me forever. -weeps-

dude, it's super hard when the currency and the ideal item are the same XD

I'm really enjoying this event and the items!

sorry for not making more snow this year cho ~ I wanted to do something a little bit different from last year D:

then make fancy snow? oxo that is different?

well i meant we had 2 snow items last year~~~

aside - bf is flossing his teeth right next to me so gross omg i'm dying

@Glitch oh gross! boys can be so gross, but we love them for it anyway.
I'm okay with the snow items, I guess. I don't change my avi, I guess I'm waiting for the avi editor to start saving them.

kick him in the knee?