In any case it's none of your aunt's business. It was an agreement between you and your cousin. She has no say in the matter and her opinions don't count. So I wouldn't stress it. You just sort it out with your cousin without your aunt's interference.

*Huggels Sunako* try not to think on it too much as your aunt wont see wrong on your cousins behalth. Shes thesort where her baby can do no wrong. Rewlly want to slap thouse kind of people.

Well, can't really do much about that. If people send you messages about it saying you owe money just ignore them is all I can say.

It's no one's business on facebook either but I suppose if you AND your cousin explain the situation then they'll leave well enough alone. I say AND because they might not believe you until she actually admits it as well. But yeah don't listen to your aunt and anyone else. Just relax and things will work out. :P

Agreed, btw for any one having a shitty day. Your doing fine your a wonderful human being. Live for today and stop reregting things from the past.

Need that bit today. Currently having that old anxiety that makes you want to find a hole and crawl into it forever.

I hate thouse days they can go and do one!

I had a customer tell me today that they put my name down on this thing saying good things about me. XD Funny part is that the store they put it in for I don't work for because I'm a vendor that sells services on certain machines and such but I told them thank you anyways. XD They were actually surprised when I didn't know what they were talking about. XD

So I got a victory roll thing from the supermarket lets just say I'm going to need a freind when using it I'm so hap hazard with shakes etc I cant do it my self.

Er...what? I don't know what you mean? I got that you won something, but you won shakes...as in milk shakes? o.O

Lol no ml a victory roll is a type of hair stlye I got my self something to make doing it easyer. I shake like my hands vibrate a lot, hap hazard just means my fingers or hands wont ait where I want them and ai have to put a lot of thought into what I want to do with them priour to doing it.

.-.
Sorry, I thought you rolled something and got a prize. I'm going to hide in the corner now. ^^;

Its ok hun I'll put it down to you being sleepy or some such XD. Hope you had a epic day at least.

Wish I could say that, sadly my mom's made me so depressed that all I want to do is watch tv shows. I didn't even feel like eating anything because of all her b**ching about things I have no control over and trying to blame them all on me.

*Huggels ml* sorry to hear that hun. I wish I could help you dear.

I mentioned it in the life issues thread in a place I can rant, though sadly my mom was still gripping to me about it afterwards and just wouldn't give it a rest. It was mostly because she was saying the sandwich things I eat for breakfast are making me gain weight, and I told her it was because that half gallon of ice cream she bought me and told me to eat in one day (and she actually yelled at me for taking three days to eat by the way). So when I was out shopping I saw these little personally ice creams (they have like two and a half servings but I usually two 3-4 days to eat them) and when I asked if its okay if I buy them she basically says no because there's ice cream that she bought that she wants me to eat and yells at me if I don't eat, but also yells at me when I do. *sigh* I eat less junk than she does, and she freakin harps on for for eating one stupid jimmy dean chicken sandwich with either a yogurt or granola bar. *facepalm* And this is the person that will eat half a container of ice cream and half a bag of potato chips for dinner harping on me about this. She freakin doesn't know how to eat healthy and yet harps on the healthy things people eat saying its not healthy. *REALLY wants to strangle her*

The thing is my mom weighs almost twice as much as I do and is almost three times my size. The lowest I've ever gotten my weight even when being really strict with what I ate was about 165 pounds, I couldn't loose anymore weight than that and I weigh about 180 right now. It runs in my family, women on my dad's side are above average weight, my real mother and her mom are like that as well as was her father. Unlike me she actually eats all this junk and she's harping on us about because she talked to a dietitian a few times, then decides she knows enough not to talk to them anymore, and then goes back to eating that junk that she does. The worse part is that she's literally too dumb to understand what the heck she's doing. (she can't even do simple addition and subtraction like 654-154, and that actually happened today by the way). On top of that she says things are not her business and still sticks her nose into it and then yells at us for it when she's the one instigating everything. Then she accuses us of trying to make her out as the bad guy when none of our friends want to come over because they don't like her. None of them like her and really don't want anything to do with her either because of how mean and nasty she is. She even went as far as to say that gay guys are the cause of AIDS, or in other words if there weren't gay guys there wouldn't be AIDS when that's totally BS because you can look it up on the AIDS research facility's site for yourself. Oh, and did I forget to mention she used to be a nurse, a nurse who couldn't do math? (yes, I'm still upset about the whole thing, sorry for ranting).

It's okay to rant, I don't mind and she does sound like a quite a horrible person unfortunately. And, I'm sorry that you have to deal with that on a daily basis. Sounds like it was pointless of her going to a dietitician in the first place if she ain't going to stick to the healthy eating and lifestyle. But honestly she shouldn't be make you feel horrible when she weighs a lot more than you do. I hope you will be okay.

Sorry ml your mom sounds so ignorant it hurts. It's okay we all have our own problem and if talking about it here helps you then by all means. :P

I just wish I made enough money to move out on my own so that I wouldn't have to put up with her. That's actually the same reason why her kids moved out to be honest. >>;

You can always save up and eventually move out. I'm planning on doing that too. I can't stand living at home so I'm leaving too.

Problem is I'm saving up for accounting classes, which is pretty expensive since I can only do one class at a time. And that book keeping thing I do have to pay the full $400+ to complete. *sigh*

you' get there t may take a while but you will.

Yeah, I'll be asking my professor where I have to do it since she found out its not at our college like she had thought.

so my hip went on me on the way to work bad enoutgh for me to call in sick, it go's every now and then and has been threatening to go since thursday last week. It's that bad that it's took me 40 minute to do a ten minute walk ruddy hate my joints at times. Since I had a nasty injuary on that side it's never been the same even with physio <.<.

Ouch, that really sucks Kara. And I'm sorry you had to call out of work too. There's nothing that can be done to help with preventing it from going out like that?

Nope I'm hypermoble so my joints will end up ether dislocated or semi dislocated, Joys of having more then one point of artcualtion...NOT!. Second time t's randomly gone on me as 've been waking. need to push for a xray or mr on t as think I may have some arthritus on as t gets extremly sore in cold weather.

My cousin's mother has that except in her arm since she dislocated her arm a multitude of times.

I'm strange I have t right through out my body on more or less every joint you can think of. The pyso loves poking and bendng me n ways that should not be humanly posible when I go in to see if they can figure out a new way to stop it from happening as much.

That's terrible, Im sorry to hear that :c

Its ok. You learn to live with these things your aunt will know when its goin to happen so qt least you can prepare for the inevatable disloaction. It just dont hurt as much when you can keep track of the warnin signs.

Ouch, that stinks. :/

Aspercream? Warm things like capsaicin (pepper) lotions or heating pads could help.
If your joints are all over the place, perhaps some support - gauze around the joints - could help...

(Mom has arthritis bad in some areas due to several horse/animal related injuries...)

Ussaly a hot water bottle and good strong pain killers sees me right again. Today I will be using my parasol as a cane but off out to see professor Elemntal tonight. Going to poke my bf to help me walk if need be.

Be safe either way! *hugs*