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Matt the Merciless 02-26-2011 07:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Zombification (Post 526735)
But.. I want to name him Phoenix.. Phoenix Von (Insertlastnamehere)

SO FANCY.

Matt if I have your baby I'll name it Kirk. Deal?

<____<
If you get a baby out of me you'll really have to force it to happen.

Zombification 02-26-2011 07:46 PM

Rape babies.

Kitty Desu 02-26-2011 07:48 PM

One day my husband just said, "How about Jensen?" XD It's a name that he's always liked, and I like it way more than any other name that he's come up with. (Such as Maximillion, LOL.)

We could not agree on a boy's name until then, so we're happy with what we decided on. ♥ (We had a girl's name picked out since I was about eight weeks! XD)

My husband really wanted a boy, so I'm happy for him. I'm gender blind, so it doesn't matter to me in the end. XD

Matt the Merciless 02-26-2011 07:50 PM

Gender blind huh? Cool. I like to hear that because I'm sure he'll be raised in a way that won't be...well...discriminatory I guess you'd say XD

Kitty Desu 02-26-2011 07:57 PM

My husband and I are incredibly open minded people; there are very few lifestyle choices that we frown upon. (Usually those choices cause severe psychological damage, so we feel that those choices are clinical problems.)

The only reason I was rooting for a girl is because I wanted to decorate the nursery in pink and put them in pretty princess dresses. O 3O

Matt the Merciless 02-26-2011 07:58 PM

......do it anyway <___<

Kitty Desu 02-26-2011 08:01 PM

LOL. Noooo. XD It's best not do things to them when they can't voice an opinion about it. I mean... What if little Jensen grows up, sees pictures of him dressed in frilly dresses and then grows to dislike cross-dressers?

O n O It happens~

But, you know, if I find him at the age of five in my closet then I'll be happy to buy him all the pretty princess dresses he could want. XD

Matt the Merciless 02-26-2011 08:03 PM

It sounds like most crossdressers start that way, finding their way into their mom's/sister's closet when they're younger.
I haven't heard it any other way

Zombification 02-26-2011 08:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Matt the Merciless (Post 526759)
......do it anyway <___<

This.

Kitty Desu 02-26-2011 08:07 PM

LOL. Just one day be like, "Hmm... I want a girl, today."

Matt the Merciless 02-26-2011 08:12 PM

Why couldn't you be one of my parents? XD

I'm stuck living with my dad who hates that I crossdress and wants nothing to do with it. And while you can't expect everyone to be accepting of that stuff, it does suck when its your father and you're stuck living somewhere where you can't really be yourself e___e

Kitty Desu 02-26-2011 08:17 PM

I understand. I was never really able to be myself around my parents, but that wasn't because they were disapproving... It's because...well. It's hard to explain. XD Let's just say, there are things about me that I don't feel my parents need to know about.

I could never tell my parents about the gender blindness and my pansexuality just because they wouldn't understand, and I didn't feel that anything would change if I told them. XD

But... I hope someday that you'll get to be yourself 100% of the time.

Matt the Merciless 02-26-2011 08:20 PM

Yeah that's a fairly easy thing to keep from them and still go on normally.
Its just awkward as hell because not only can I not dress the way I want, but I can't talk to my dad or stepmom about any gender/sexuality things because well..they don't like that stuff XD

My mom is more accepting, and has actually bought me a skirt, but its still kind of strange around her

Zombification 02-26-2011 08:25 PM

Everyone around me besides my father (I think) knows I like girls. Baw. I told my mom recently. She just asked me some questions like whether I like girls or guys more. Haha.

Matt the Merciless 02-26-2011 08:28 PM

I didn't even know you liked girls until now XD

Kitty Desu 02-26-2011 08:30 PM

@Matt
It's always strange talking to parents about sexuality and the like. It's kind of one of those you don't wanna know about your parent's sexuality and they don't wanna know about yours kind of deal.

My husband and I want to make sure that we raise a very understanding and tolerant child.

We still aren't sure how some things will be introduced, but we'll figure it all out eventually. :3

@Zombification
My mom onced asked if I liked girls. I said, "Yeah, why not?" XD

Matt the Merciless 02-26-2011 08:31 PM

Most likely the kid will be curious and ask you about stuff when they're young.
Well.. I don't know, that's what I did anyway XD

Kitty Desu 02-26-2011 08:32 PM

Oh, the whole sexuality thing and what not will be no problem for us. Question like "Why are those two guys kissing?" and the like will be a breeze. My husband and I just...live an alternative lifestyle, and we've never had to deal with children around us. XD

Matt the Merciless 02-26-2011 08:33 PM

Mind if I ask what you mean by live an alternative lifestyle? o:

Kitty Desu 02-26-2011 08:35 PM

Er... I'm in a 24/7 D/s relationship with my husband. :3

Matt the Merciless 02-26-2011 08:37 PM

.________________.
You are so lucky XD
What role do you take?

Kitty Desu 02-26-2011 08:40 PM

LOL. :'D I am my husband's pet. ♥

Matt the Merciless 02-26-2011 08:40 PM

FFFFFFFFFFFF

You are so lucky XD
I haven't tried anything like that to know for sure, but I'm pretty sure that's the kind of relationship I'd like to have

Zombification 02-26-2011 08:42 PM

Me too, Matt. x////x

Matt the Merciless 02-26-2011 08:48 PM

I don't want to get too sexual on here because I'm sure we can't, but to combine my like of crossdressing with my desire to be taken control of in a relationship, yeah... I could really go for something like that XD
I'm JEALOUS BLOO I'm jealous.

Kitty Desu 02-26-2011 09:01 PM

LOL. XD Don't be jealous~

Sex isn't really a big factor in the D/s relationship, though it obviously has its place. I'm not a service submissive, but I do have a similar role as a 1950s housewife. > w <

Matt the Merciless 02-26-2011 09:03 PM

That's a good thing though XD
I want a bit more control than that. I want to be able to you know, go to work and do that kind of stuff without the relationship making it awkward, but have home life and personal life being in complete control of the other person.
Gah. It would be so nice XD

Kitty Desu 02-26-2011 09:07 PM

XD

In my relationship, there are tasks that I know my owner (that would be the proper term for my husband) would want to be done. So, I do them. That mostly includes keeping the house clean while he's at work. When he comes home I do simple things like take off his shoes and socks (and the rest of his clothes if he wants me to), give him a light massage, tell him about my day... :3

I also wash his hair for him sometimes. > w < I love doing it because he has really soft hair. 8D

He gave me a collar for my last birthday. ; 3; It's so cute~


EDIT: You're welcome to message me with any questions or comments that you don't believe are appropriate for the young ones.

Matt the Merciless 02-26-2011 09:11 PM

A COLLAR TOO AHFDKFHSKJFLHDS
I don't get jealous, let me be very clear that I am not a jealous person.
But DAMMIT you are making me jealous XD

Espy 02-26-2011 09:12 PM

-rolls in- 'Ello.

Kitty Desu 02-26-2011 09:14 PM

@Matt
XD Maybe one day you'll find your other half who will happily collar you.

@Espy
Oh hi. :3

Matt the Merciless 02-26-2011 09:16 PM

Hopefully Bloo.
Hopefully .___.


Hello Espy!

Kitty Desu 02-26-2011 09:26 PM

</rolls around>

What to do, what to do~

I'm suppose to be running over to a friend's house soon so I don't want to start coloring my artsu only to have to leave in the middle. D: It would mess up my groove.

Matt the Merciless 02-26-2011 09:27 PM

What is it that you're going to color?

Kitty Desu 02-26-2011 09:30 PM

I drew some fellow Trisphees earlier, but I was being lazy and didn't want to color them right away. XD

Matt the Merciless 02-26-2011 09:30 PM

Oh wow, looking at your deviantART, that's pretty cool stuff!

Kitty Desu 02-26-2011 09:40 PM

^ _ ^ Thank you~ I do try.

itchweeed 02-26-2011 09:58 PM

haha Hey Matt, I didn't realize you were on Trisphee too. <3

Matt the Merciless 02-26-2011 10:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by itchweeed (Post 527066)
haha Hey Matt, I didn't realize you were on Trisphee too. <3

I only recognize your name and don't believe I know ANYTHING about you.
But yeah, I just joined after leaving Solia XD

itchweeed 02-26-2011 10:09 PM

Ok then. Hi I'm Kerri. I'm 25 and enjoy gory horror movies and video games. Nice to meet you. ;)
You quit?


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