I actually found the books very inspirational.

If that can be published and made into a movie, my stories can as well.

Although mine don't seem to focus on stalkers, abusive jealousy, or creepy breaking into someones house to watch them sleep. I don't find that romantic at all.

You deserve a round of applause for that, because that is what is inspirational about the books.

"Well if she can do it..."

Let's just say not very well. ._.