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Espy 12-17-2015 05:45 PM

Yep, people with Asperger's.

Monorea 12-17-2015 05:54 PM

Well we can be nice but many have a hard time with sarcasm, humor and pessimism.
Most of use have a much lower empathy and sympathy.
Aspergers main symptoms are social impairments so it isn't really correct to say we are all nice people, we have to try much harder than the normal person to be that. Many of the social actions we do we have to mimic and actively remember because that automation other people have don't really work for us.

Espy 12-17-2015 06:41 PM

Yeah, had a friend describe that to me once. I can definitely understand that, but it's extremely difficult to fully relate because, as an empath, I tend to automatically read people and have very little trouble doing so. (This often leads to awkward situations.)

Hm...Maybe it's more accurate to say that, because you go the extra length to not seem like a dick, that you're less...offending than lots of people without Asperger's? ...Urgh, I'm not very good with actual words. Like...since you actually consciously need to put in effort, you tend to not take things for granted, and that results in not being callous on a regular basis as compared to some people with really brash personalities.

...Words are hard. -flails-

Monorea 12-17-2015 06:44 PM

Maybe?
It's pretty confusing
Thanks Espy for thinking i am nice ^^

Tas 12-17-2015 06:45 PM

well you are nice, mystie!

113 on virgil.

Monorea 12-17-2015 06:47 PM

114 for Virgil's
.....and i forget what i am gonna say
stupid head where thoughts escape so fast!

Tas 12-17-2015 06:48 PM

115 virgil

awww I hate forgetting what I'm gonna say!

Monorea 12-17-2015 06:51 PM

116 for Virgils
Well there are often one or two people that don't like me.
Most often trolls, they hate me as i go all logical on their comments.
Or some people with more grating personalities.
Thankfully on the bigger sites they could avoid me and i them.
Even more thankfully no one here as expressed a dislike of me yet.

Tas 12-17-2015 06:54 PM

well, there's always mean people who will dislike you for whatever reason, doesn't mean you aren't nice.

117 virgil.

Monorea 12-17-2015 06:59 PM

118 Virgils
Never said i weren't nice but they still irritate themselves at my bluntness and the way i behave.

Tas 12-17-2015 07:01 PM

well, try not to let them bother you!

119 virgil.

Monorea 12-17-2015 07:04 PM

120 Virgils
Your current outfit looks quite nice, are you my genie in the lamp?

Tas 12-17-2015 07:07 PM

121 virgil

haha, I suppose so! What are your three wishes?

Espy 12-17-2015 07:14 PM

Had a friend back in high school who, for the first couple years, seemed to just really dislike me.

I should probably have prefaced that with the fact that high school was where I learned a lot about how to actually talk to strangers. I suppose I might seem relatively outgoing now (moreso in real life), but pre-HS Espy was timid as all fuck. It took me a lot of time to warm up to people, even old friends who I hadn't seen in a while, and I had a huge fear of talking to peers who were just a year or two older than me.

But yeah, uh. So my mode of operation was more or less the two extremes -- usually quiet and shy, and then blunt and kind of...excessive/flamboyant on rare occasions. I think my friend's first impression of me was the excessive/flamboyant side, and, being a really cautious, logical, restrained person, she and I just really started off on the wrong foot.

...And then there are other people who just couldn't deal with the fact that I generally don't mince my words. -shrug-

Seems to always be people who want to find any excuse possible to dislike you.

Tas 12-17-2015 07:15 PM

I still don't know how to talk to strangers, at least in real life. o.o

Monorea 12-17-2015 07:15 PM

121 for Virgils
Let me think about it till tomorrow ^^

Edit: my wishes i mean

Tas 12-17-2015 07:41 PM

122 virgil

of course, darlin'! Take your time!

Monorea 12-17-2015 07:44 PM

123 Virgil
And i gotta sleep now
Bye ^^

Tas 12-17-2015 07:52 PM

124 virgil

goodnight, mystie! Sleep well! <3

Espy 12-17-2015 07:53 PM

Night, Myst.

Also, updated.

Monorea 12-18-2015 04:49 AM

125 for Virgils
Good Morning World!

Espy 12-18-2015 04:51 AM

...I keep forgetting what time zone you're in. I'm actually just about to pass out.

Tas 12-18-2015 05:09 AM

126 on virgil.

how are you doing today, mystie?

Monorea 12-18-2015 05:09 AM

Just go to sleep, we can manage ourselves ^^
127 Virgil

Tas 12-18-2015 05:11 AM

128 virgil.

I dunno about that, I might accidentally burn the place down!

Monorea 12-18-2015 05:18 AM

129 Virgils
I am extremely worried my mom is a music teacher so she soon has winter break and whenever there is a break she goes cleaning crazy! I don't wanna do chores all day T-T

Tas 12-18-2015 05:57 AM

130 virgil.

awww, I hate chores.

Monorea 12-18-2015 05:58 AM

131 for Virgils
So have you checked out the event forum?

Tas 12-18-2015 06:24 AM

132 virgil

yeah! Sort of. I was just trying to take a look when the forum went down for nightly maintenance. o.o

Monorea 12-18-2015 06:33 AM

133 for Virgil
Well now it's back so go ahead and look.
So we get the same amount of snowflakes everywhere except forum games?

Tas 12-18-2015 06:37 AM

134 virgil

not sure; I've gotten anywhere from 10 to 20 by posting.

Monorea 12-18-2015 06:41 AM

135 for Virgils
Yeah there don't seem to be a noticeable bonus in the event forum?

Tas 12-18-2015 06:42 AM

136 virgil

yeah, I don't think so. I think the point of the event forum is to get extra snowflakes by participating in the games and events.

Monorea 12-18-2015 06:46 AM

137 for Virgil
Well i hope the build a snowman opens soon ^^

Tas 12-18-2015 06:47 AM

138 virgil

yeah, that looks like fun!

Monorea 12-18-2015 06:55 AM

139 for Virgil
So which letter do you usually start with?

Tas 12-18-2015 06:56 AM

I usually start with E.

140 virgil.

Monorea 12-18-2015 09:43 AM

141 for Virgils
Yeah i suppose that is sensible

Tas 12-18-2015 02:46 PM

142 virgil

most common letter in the English language!

Monorea 12-18-2015 02:49 PM

143 for Virgil
I like E but i usually go for A because it's the first letter in the alphabet.
I know that isn't a good reason but brain does what brain wants.


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