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Saiyouri 09-29-2011 11:21 PM

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☪ஐﻬ☽ Yup. He's worked 4 weeks straight, minus the 3
days his mentor got off for a family
emergency and the 3 days his truck
was broken. I just don't understand
why the hell they don't let him get
a few days after a couple weeks to be
home with his family. I think that is
causing a problem with us since I am
depressed since he is gone and he doesn't
know how to handle people like me.




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Feythfull 09-30-2011 09:06 AM

I am sorry to hear all that. He has a job where he's away from home for days?

Serra Britt 09-30-2011 03:15 PM

Feyfey, if I remember right Sai's husband is a trucker.

I wish I knew what to say, Sai, I don't have any experience with those kind of medicines except that my sister takes them and she had some issues when she started with them.

Saiyouri 09-30-2011 06:19 PM

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☪ஐﻬ☽ That's ok Serra. I have good hopes that
me being off of them is best for me. I
just hope the wort works to be worth me
stopping my meds.

Fey- Ya. It's annoying. He told me last
night that if I didn't have court he would
of been gone for an entire 8 weeks straight
because they don't let people who are new
get time off until they finish their training
because they want to make sure they can handle
it. But to me that is bull because of the damn
families. They count and should be counted too.
Damn business of his pisses me off now. Now I
really hate his job and want him to find a new
one badly. I just hope after his damn 6 months
he is willing to find a better job to be at
home with me.




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Feythfull 09-30-2011 08:10 PM

what do you mean if you didn't have court?
Whats in 6 months that he would get a better job?

Saiyouri 09-30-2011 08:35 PM

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☪ஐﻬ☽ If I didn't have court, he would still be on the
road right now and wouldn't of come home for
4 more weeks, so he would of been gone for 8
weeks straight.

He has to stay there for 6 months in order to
get a better job. Like a different company or
to find a job that means he's at home instead.
Otherwise if he wants to come back and he left
before 6 months was up, he would have to go back
to school again, which costs over 3k.




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Feythfull 09-30-2011 08:50 PM

well that sucks 8 weeks is a long time!

Serra Britt 09-30-2011 08:52 PM

Eight weeks is too long to be away from family :/ Doesn't the company think about that when they hire people?

Saiyouri 09-30-2011 08:58 PM

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☪ஐﻬ☽ Serra- No. According to my husband most people
have no family that drive. And some that do,
take their wives with them and drive as a team
too. But to me that is still no excuse to ignore
the ones with a family that are at home waiting
for their fathers, husbands, or wives to come
back home to them. >.>; I just hope to god his
mentoring time finishes soon because then he
should only be gone for 2 weeks at a time.




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Serra Britt 09-30-2011 09:04 PM

Two weeks still feels like a long time. It's better than 8 weeks but still...

I hope he can get something that lets him stay with you more.

Saiyouri 09-30-2011 09:07 PM

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☪ஐﻬ☽ Thank you. I hope he is willing to do that for me.
Because 4 weeks is too much to handle without
him. Plus he's great to have around with helping
raise our son. We just found a lunchmeat bag in
his room today that's been gone for 2 weeks at least,
soda cans, bottles of empty water, box of pudding,
poptart wrapper and I think another thing or two.
~_~ I thought he stopped doing that too. Plus I guess
he's been lying to me alot too recently since I will
believe what he says. But he's my son of course I
will believe him. But I guess now I can't.




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Feythfull 09-30-2011 09:11 PM

:( i am sorry to hear that but he is a kid most kids do stuff like that

Saiyouri 09-30-2011 09:18 PM

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☪ஐﻬ☽ He's been stealing food since he was either 3 or 4.
And his sister used to steal raw eggs. I
did feed them well, and even gave them at
least 2-3 snacks a day too. It's like I
never fed them. I just wished he's stop
doing things like that. He's taking away
from me too by doing that which means I
will eat less to nothing if we don't have
much food left anymore until my husband
comes back home for us to go shopping.




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Feythfull 09-30-2011 11:23 PM

steal and eat raw eggs?

That is kinda weird that they are stealing food.

Saiyouri 10-01-2011 11:16 AM

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☪ஐﻬ☽ I know. I never understood why they would do that.
I did feed like like I should. Maybe even more.
But stealing food after I feed them alot doesn't
make sense at all. I swear I had stupid kids.




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Feythfull 10-01-2011 03:34 PM

aw don't say that! they aren't stupid i am sure there is a reason they are doing it you may never find out but I am sure there is

Saiyouri 10-01-2011 03:46 PM

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☪ஐﻬ☽ They are only concerned it seems like, is their company. And money.
I just wished it wasn't 4 weeks again. My
hubby, Joe, said it should be 2 weeks after
his mentoring if over with. I just hope that
it is. His son is hard to deal with alone
since I don't like confrontation. I've dealt
with it my entire life and I just had it. I
want a calm life for now on. But with our son
I have to fight with him every single day, a
few times a day now since he knows I am stupid
enough to believe him. But I guess now I have
to think that everything he says is a lie.
This way I don't have to deal with too much
like I had to before. Plus Joe instated new
rules before he left, which should make things,
hopefully a little easier on me. I just hope
that my son listens to them no matter if it's
just me or not.




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Feythfull 10-01-2011 03:49 PM

I hope things get better for you

Saiyouri 10-01-2011 03:54 PM

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☪ஐﻬ☽ Thank you, I hope so too. Right now the biggest problem is my son.
Especially since my son walks home from school
if something happens that he doesn't like.




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Feythfull 10-01-2011 04:03 PM

just make him walk right back

Saiyouri 10-01-2011 04:07 PM

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☪ஐﻬ☽ I would but this school marks kids trunt right away and they
are not allowed back into school for the
rest of the day or the next day cause they
are suspended. Which is bull because ya...
making a kid NOT go to school is totally gonna
teach them a lesson LOL. Stupid schools.




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Feythfull 10-01-2011 04:11 PM

that stupid like rewarding him for leaving how is he supposed to learn not to do it if you can't make him go back

Saiyouri 10-01-2011 04:35 PM

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☪ஐﻬ☽ I know what you mean. The one problem I'm having is keeping him
in school. My son wants to leave school
which is way, according to Joe, is why he
is lying what is happening at school with
teachers and students keep picking on him
and teasing him all the time. I had a terrilbe
school experience in three schools from 2nd
grade til I dropped out in 11th. I had bad
teachers every single year and they were all
bad but 2 in 6th. 2, that's it. Otherwise they
actually did harass me in class in front of the
other students and I was the kid that stayed to
myself and kept quiet all the time doing my
work or reading. And if I did talk, it was me
being so quiet my friend couldn't really hear
me at all over everyone else who was loud as hell.
But they were all whores and jack asses, (cheerleaders
and jocks). No offense. So Joe is saying because he
knows that, he is using that for himself to try to
get me to keep him home from school and home school
him, which I can't because he isn't willing to do
any work at all, its a fight to do that too. You have
to yell at him and argue non stop just for him to throw
a fit and cry for a hour or so. >.>;

I tried my best with all my kids and they all take
advantage of me. I wish I could control my emotions
like Joe can. >.>;

I've been meaning to say. I love your avi. It's
beautiful.




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Feythfull 10-01-2011 07:34 PM

thank you.

I am sorry I don't know anything about raising kids so I don't know what to say. Call the super nanny or just watch a few episodes of her show they are all the same thing lol

Saiyouri 10-01-2011 07:45 PM

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☪ஐﻬ☽ I used to watch that show. Those kids are just beyond bad. I'm glad my
son isn't that bad at all. I'm hoping that
getting him rediagnosed will help with knowing
what is wrong with him. To me there has to be
something causing this behaviour. Otherwise I
am at a loss at what is going on with that kid.

On a side note Joe gave me his ipad and now I
have a MMO on it that is alot like World of
Warcraft. Now all I have to do is start to
actually play games for once instead of
thinking about them lol.




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Feythfull 10-01-2011 07:52 PM

Maybe when your son does something wrong you should do like on the super nanny even though he's not as bad as those kids. Take him aside tell him what he has done wrong and make him sit in time out for a certain amount of time. Keep putting him there until he sits there his whole time. Then have him repeat what he has done wrong.

If it has to do with coming home from school tell him that you know he is having a hard time at school and you understand how he feels but if he doesn't go to school you will get in trouble from the government and he will get taken from you and go to a place they will force him to go to school.
And make sure he isn't doing anything at all while in time out.

Saiyouri 10-01-2011 08:03 PM

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☪ஐﻬ☽ I try talking to him but I just get lies from him. Like he will
say that someone did this to him and he told
a teacher but they didn't care and ignored it.
That is why he acted out in school. Exact same
stuff I heard in the last place we lived in 2
different schools. He's 12 so time outs won't
really work on him. We take his computer away
from him for periods of time and now he has to
earn his computer. Like if I don't get a call
saying he did this and this in school he can
have it for the day but at night it goes into
my room and stays there til the next day so he
can't look at porn again and stay up all damn
night like he's done before.




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Feythfull 10-01-2011 08:17 PM

Just make him sit one one spot for like half an hour with out anything at all to do.

Saiyouri 10-01-2011 08:20 PM

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☪ஐﻬ☽ I'd be yelling at him the whole time and I can't yell here
or else we might get kicked out. Taking his
computer away is working so far in the house.
He's been better today with the new rules we
just set in effect yesterday. We tried time
outs in the past but they never worked for
any of the kids.




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Feythfull 10-01-2011 08:22 PM

Don't yell at him just keep bringing him back and sitting him down if he gets up. And each time calmly say why he has to have a time out. And always give him a hug and tell him you love him after he completes it and apologizes.

Saiyouri 10-01-2011 08:27 PM

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☪ஐﻬ☽ I can't touch him, he's icky. And I have severe OCD. I can only
touch Joe and my kitties. Plus I snap alot
of the time. I have never had good control
over my frustration. I think its from the
family I grew up in, they yelled and
screamed non stop in front of me. >.> And
now I have a hard time trying not to yell.
I just snap and yell before I realize that
I am doing it. Something I have to work on.




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Feythfull 10-01-2011 08:37 PM

Well keep working on that. Sounds like your family is in a tough spot.

Saiyouri 10-01-2011 08:43 PM

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☪ஐﻬ☽ My family is a bunch of ass holes who are abusive and treat you like shit.
And will talk about you behind your back, all run
by the biggest bitch in the world, the bitch who
calls herself my mom. The only decent people in my
family are dead. My great grandma was the only person
in the family who treated every like they are worthy
human beings and loved everyone to bits and would
take her time out to get to know you before she ever
even thought of making a judgement on you. And my
grandma she was the sweetest person, but she would
always side with my abusive mother when I had problems
with her and had problems with my husband she didn't
even know, but she was an abused woman for over 40
some years by her husband so I am not too mad at her.
I cut everyone out of my life, they hate me because I
married a great amazing man and they don't even know
him at all, just what my mom tells them, which is all
lies. So I learned alot of bad habits from them which
are hard to break. Like yelling because I am upset
or frustrated, but I have controlled it alot better
though, but with my son I snap all the time especially
since I still can't figure out why he would lie to me
but talks highly about me all the time to school. I
am just frustrated and confused with him so I snap
alot more with him than I would with anyone else.




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Feythfull 10-01-2011 08:54 PM

Dx I was talking about your husband and kids. . . that family.

I am sorry you had such a terrible mother. Some people would have been neutered.

Saiyouri 10-01-2011 08:57 PM

тнє ℓσνє σƒ мαgι¢ ιѕ вєуση∂ ƒσяgσттєη
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☪ஐﻬ☽ Ya know, I think people need to be. There are too many people
out there that should never be allowed to have
kids and the prime example is my entire family.
My real family has been through alot but Joey
and I are still together and going strong even
though everything (statics) say we should of
seprated a long time ago.




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Feythfull 10-01-2011 11:06 PM

I am glad to hear that! Keep on going strong!

Saiyouri 10-02-2011 11:16 AM

тнє ℓσνє σƒ мαgι¢ ιѕ вєуση∂ ƒσяgσттєη
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☪ஐﻬ☽ Oh I am definately making sure we go strong no
matter what. It's hard at times, but I don't
like arguing with him so I make sure that we
don't.




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Serra Britt 10-02-2011 03:06 PM

That's really good to hear, Sai. Never giving up can be hard but it's usually the best way to get to an ideal solution.

Saiyouri 10-02-2011 03:23 PM

тнє ℓσνє σƒ мαgι¢ ιѕ вєуση∂ ƒσяgσттєη
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☪ஐﻬ☽ I gave up on my family, and my son. Well I'm giving up
on my son. I can't handle him anymore and I
try to let him get away with everything but
he keeps acting up and taking advantage of the
fact that I don't want to deal with anything
anymore. So I just called him PO and told her
everything, one of his conditions is he is to
listen to us no matter what and go to school.
Well he is breaking one and a half of those
so he better be dealt with now because I can't
handle it anymore. This weekend we went over
to the whore who calls herself my mom's place
so he can see his brothers and she is refusing
to let him see them because I refuse to appologize
for being honest to her. She's really mentally
ill and crazy as hell so I'm still getting over
that right now.

I swear I am only happy with my husband and cats.
They don't do things to me to hurt me. Sorry for
sounding really mean, I had to yell, actually scream
at my son a few times because otherwise he won't
listen to me and I got off with his PO so I'm a little
aggitated over that right now.




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Serra Britt 10-02-2011 03:31 PM

Sai, your problem with your son reminds me of my friend's problem with her son. He doesn't like to go to school, though he doesn't leave in the middle once he gets there. My friend also has trouble with her dad, as he is very controlling but she's disabled, and poor, and sometimes needs financial help to raise her two kids. Unfortunately she doesn't have a kind and loving husband to help her with stuff, because she didn't get married.

I think calling your son's PO is not giving up, it's offering the problem to someone else to help you. I know it might not sound like the best thing right now, but maybe it will help you and your son in the long run. I'm sorry I don't know what else I could say to help you, but I hope by writing it all out here on Trisphee it helps you calm down some. I'm always happy to listen even if I can't give any advice, or even relate.


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