Just frustrated a little with the differences in what my body wants and what my heart wants. I'd much prefer to not care about the physical side of a relationship but... -sigh-

Have you two talked about it?

Well, of course. She's perfectly fine if I find someone else...but honestly I'd rather be with her.

Hm. :c
would there ever be a chance to visit each other once in a while?

It seems pretty unlikely. We don't live in the same country and we both have financial issues with even travelling. Along with the fact it's pretty hard for either of us to travel with each of our health problems...

Ohhh, not the same country. D; that's hard.
I'm sorry to hear about this. :c

It's okay XD We've been together...almost four years now. Even if I can't actually be with her the time I get to spend with her is very precious regardless :3

Nice! 8D That is good to hear~

So, my cat is this chubby, 25 pound behemoth. I don't know how to get him to lose weight, he's already on only 1 cup of food a day...

oh dear.
do you play with him often, if he wants to play, that is?

He doesn't really like to play. But I took off about a pound of fur when I brushed him this morning...

lol! so fluffy?
*pets it*

I have two active cats who loves to go outside and roam all day. @_@ and play inside too, whether with cat toys, lasers, bubbles or my arms/legs.

I admit sometimes he wants to play with my legs. With his teeth >.> The only time he really lost weight was when he got lost outside for a week, but that was probably from lack of steady food more than exercise...though I know he can catch mice if he wanted to. He used to play with laser toys and feather wands but he just doesn't seem interested anymore.

Ah D; how old is he?

the poor kitty, getting lost for a week :c

He's about 9 years old now. He hasn't been out of the house on his own for at least 4 years now...

Oooh, that's still quite young~
my cats are only like.. 3 or 4 and sometimes they like to sleep all day, and other times they'd be active and playing outside. @_@

try catnip and see if that makes him more playful? xD /fail suggestion