You can do it Asami you have plenty of support from all of us on Trisphee.

I didn't backread, but what are you trying to do specifically? Lose weight in general, or just tone what you've got goin' on already? <3

right now i need to loose a bit of weight XD lol maybe 20 lbs i gained a bit recently XD and i want to loose it back. >< i wnat to look pretty again...

You ARE pretty.

But if you want to lose weight, I can try and help.

I'm at a very very unsteady 104-108 [depends on if I'm bloated or not, xD.] And I won't say how much I've lost, but, in the last 5 years of me working out and such, I've pretty much dropped a person and a half.

also the fact that im feeling this way could be contributed to my pmdd. it makes me feel like im super huge. and when i look at myself in the mirror i look like i weigh 500 lbs ;-; and such...

i generally weigh 150-160 but without my boobs id weigh 125-130 so you can get my body shape from that. but i gained a bit of weight recently from this depressed funk i am in.. so i think ill just stop eating. i weigh //cries a lot
180 now ;-; why... im so fat ;-; //cries hard.

I am aiming to lose around 20 lbs to get to my lowest allowed weight.... 125.

I don't have PMDD. But I do have PCOS, which makes it hard to lose weight, the possibility of infertility, etc etc. So I at least know how you feel. On top of that, [don't judge, now. I can actually admit it now.] I'm anorexic. I became extremely obsessed with calories, and weight loss because I felt EXACTLY like you, everytime I looked at myself.

Honestly? You're a gorgeous girl, and I wouldn't worry too much. But theres nothing wrong with wanting to get in shape, and get healthy! <3 Just make sure you do it the right way. =]

i used to be anorexic and bulimic. honestly. ive struggled with both of them for the longest time. mainly bulimia though..

That isn't good.... Time for the Vampire class! *goes off to english*

It's good for you finally admitting it Batty -hugs-

Asa;; Yeah, Bulimia and Anorexia go hand in hand, most of the time.
I'm obsessed with working out, and calorie counting. I have whats called "Athletica Anorexia", working out to compensate for what you eat.

And when you barely intake 500 calories a day, well. xD.. Thats why I say, do it the right way. I'm not doing it the WRONG way, but, I'm also not helping my situation. >< I know how to go about losing weight, toning, and maintaining the way you're supposed to, I just don't practice it with myself.

xD; Ren, I've been admitting it for the last three months or so.

Because of Hermes.

right now im trying out some supplements though.. they do work really well.. i just have a horrible memory and forget to take them soemtimes

Ahhh I see well I wasn't sure.

-tilts head- Supplements? Like, vitamins, or weight loss?

Weight loss ones don't work. At least, I wouldn't put that crap in my body. I'm all for natural weight loss. [Well, not so much anymore, seeing as how Hermes wants me to gain at least 10 pounds. NOT gonna happen.] Then again, I like doing things myself, without the aid of something like that.

its vitamins and stuff. it helps a whole lot

-sits in corner-

-phew- Okay. Vitamins are good, especially if you're not getting all you need from what you eat and drink.

Batty how much do you weigh and how tall are you?

yeah lol theres also this really awesome green tea stuff that works great xD
i drink lots of water with them as well :P

I'm 5'4", and at current weight [from being sick] I'm 104.

Asa;; I'm a Green tea and water FIEND. I don't drink anything else, unless you count coffee. I NEED my coffee. At least twice a day. But I don't get coffee from places like DD and Starbucks. I brew my own. <3

Batty.... A you a stick as in no chest or thighs? Cause my doctor told me if I EVER got back under 120 he would beat me with a stick.

i see XD i bet if i dropped soda i would loose the 20 lbs in no time..
i think ill do that
YOU GUYS NEED TO KEEP ME TO THIS PROMISE! xD
only tea and water from now on! oh! and juice >3

xD;. I have absolutely no tits what so ever. I joke I'm a negative A.
In actuality, I'm a 32A. [YAYYY! I GET TO SHOP IN THE PRETEEN SECTION!] But I'm far from stick-like. Because of my PCOS, I tend to attract at the middle. Above my tummy, I'm fine. Below my tummy, I'm fine. My midsection? Holy hell, man. ><;

My thighs are average, I guess. I have runners thighs/legs, because I do A LOT of leg work and cardio. I could crush cans with them thangs.

a lot of people say i should be a leg model O.o idk why.. they say my legs are so perfect looking.. >> i enjoy my leggs i love wearing skinny jeans because of them

Nice.... I have thunder thighs and I loose weight everywhere before I loose weight there... So that is why I can't get under 125, because then I look sick in my torso area.

xD My legs are Hermes' favorite part of me, next to my eyes and laugh. He's a leg guy, so I guess it works out that I've got that goin' for me.

According to him, [and the people I live with] you can see my ribs [count them, even u.u] I don't see it though.

Yeah.... That was me senior year..... Alpha tried force feeding me. Alpha doesn't state he has a favorite part of me.

yeah... when i weighed 155 you could see my ribs really well. my boobs put a lot of pressure on them though.. i need better bras... but yeah. it was bad but now they are covered with flab.. i guess its not that bad but to me it is... i feel so ugly and fat..

Women in general are critical of their bodies... Like my friend Kelly who all ways is worried about her arms because she likes wearing corsets and with her large tracks of land they make her arms look rounder in them.

when i wear camis my arms look huge. and my boobs tend to pop out because i cant find a cami that fits my breast size. the body fits perfects in fact kinda loose but the boobs.. >< oh god... ;-; i just want to wear normal stuff

Its because of the media, mostly.

They try and ground the image of a "perfect woman" into us. Unfortunately, I know model size is NOT perfect, that perfect is what you were born with, but I can't help but want to be thinner. even though I know for a fact, thinner for me, would equal disaster.

yeah thinner usually is a really bad thing...

Asami, you could consider a breast reduction? It might help with you back problems.

i have but idk... mike would be sad

Ah, my opinion is that if it is causing you pain and it would stop it he should want you to do it. Even a DD would be better.

well anything would be better xD im just afraid... it will look stuppid and theres a lot of backfires by doing that.. lots of bad things ;-;

Yeah.... There is a chance you couldn't breast feed

yeah but i dont think ill do that theres lots of risks when you breast feed. but there are a ton of other risks when doing a reduction. really bad things...