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Batty 10-02-2012 10:47 AM

<.<;; I want/need ten of each. xD;

Kamikaze Chinchilla 10-02-2012 01:29 PM

*shares her invisible inventory with Ginger* <3

Hermes 10-02-2012 02:08 PM

*noms on trisphee*

Kamikaze Chinchilla 10-02-2012 02:39 PM

Oh gawd! *gets into her hazmat suit as Hermes infects Trisphee*

Hermes 10-02-2012 05:25 PM

*NARM NARM NARM NARM NARM*

Tiva 10-02-2012 08:17 PM

*hides in corner*

Coda 10-02-2012 08:48 PM

Lucid, there isn't steam IN the tunnels. It's a utility access shaft, basically. The "danger" is that it's largely unattended and tampering with anything could cause big problems.

Edit: There's also the slim chance that something under pressure might explode. Not likely to happen, but it's technically a risk.

Tiva 10-02-2012 08:55 PM

Eh.... I think she just wants to momma Espy.. we all do

Espy 10-02-2012 09:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Coda (Post 1376608)
Lucid, there isn't steam IN the tunnels. It's a utility access shaft, basically. The "danger" is that it's largely unattended and tampering with anything could cause big problems.

THANK YOU, CODA.

Dropping the subject, again >.>

Alpha 10-02-2012 09:28 PM

We love you Espy, just remember that....

Kamikaze Chinchilla 10-02-2012 10:41 PM

I love her soul more than any of you O 3o *has a special jar for Espy's soul* <3

Ultima 10-02-2012 10:43 PM

These threads never really stay on topic, do they?

Alpha 10-02-2012 10:47 PM

NEVER!!!! *runs through thread and pokes random people*

Espy 10-02-2012 10:52 PM

....I think I would like to keep my soul, thank you...

Kamikaze Chinchilla 10-02-2012 10:52 PM

*shifty eyes*

*slips a paw into Ultima's cash stash* -u-

Espy can loan it :3 ....I can't guarantee it will come back in one piece though >w>;;

Ultima 10-02-2012 10:58 PM

HEY! My cash stash is pitiful TTATT

Espy 10-03-2012 12:39 AM

....Yeah, no, not happening.

Kamikaze Chinchilla 10-03-2012 12:51 AM

@Ultima: That's okay. I take from the poor and give to the rich *coughs - dies* XAx

@Espy: o_o .... O__O .... *crawls all over Espy* Soul of Espy *A*

Espy 10-03-2012 01:00 AM

...-flings the rodent into nearest wall-

Lucid: 10-03-2012 01:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tiva (Post 1376624)
Eh.... I think she just wants to momma Espy.. we all do

She's right you know! Don't tell your parents anything about your schoolwork, Espy! IT'S YOUR OWN SECRET TO KEEP! RUN! FREEEEEDOM!!!

Kamikaze Chinchilla 10-03-2012 01:05 AM

*explodes into confetti on contact with the wall* xAx

Espy 10-03-2012 01:07 AM

They've got, annoyingly enough, access to my grades and assignments and whatnot.

Lucid: 10-03-2012 01:11 AM

But how? Did you give them access to your studenty stuff?

Espy 10-03-2012 01:14 AM

They knew when I applied to CMU, so...

Lucid: 10-03-2012 01:16 AM

Can you just change your password or something and lock them out? :c

Espy 10-03-2012 01:18 AM

They'd know. I told my dad yesterday night, after a lecture and while being very, very stressed, that I'm tired of his perpetual trying to control everything I do and watch/monitor me. I'm an adult, for fuck's sake, and while I still think like a kid at times, I want to live college my own way. What, does he intend on worry about what I feed my family in twenty years?

Lucid: 10-03-2012 01:28 AM

So? What are they gonna do if you lock them out?
FERPA laws state once you get into college and/or you turn 18, your parents have no right to see your grades. You, however, have a legal right to keep them confidential. Exercise them rights!

Alpha 10-03-2012 01:32 AM

I'm with Lucid on this one.

I will play devil's advocate for a bit though....if they are paying for your college, they still don't have a right to see your grades, but it is a courtesy.

Espy 10-03-2012 01:38 AM

....Yes, technically, but I would be in pretty deep shit if I just locked them out. Asian parents and all...I can't believe I'm saying that, but it's so true.

Kamikaze Chinchilla 10-03-2012 01:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lucid: (Post 1377226)
So? What are they gonna do if you lock them out?
FERPA laws state once you get into college and/or you turn 18, your parents have no right to see your grades. You, however, have a legal right to keep them confidential. Exercise them rights!

^This.

I think your parents are just way too...clingy. The way they're hanging on your shoulders is counter-productive. You seriously don't need the added stress on there. Doing homework is stress enough in itself. ....Mmm...maybe try to negotiate something that is acceptable for both you and them. Have them back off with the neck breathing, but still give them status updates like once every few months or so.

Eck...Asian parents.

Espy 10-03-2012 01:50 AM

Eh, my dad pulled the "I'm paying for your college" deal yesterday, and I pulled the "Fine, I'll pay you back after college when I get a job".

...CMU's tuition is not going to be easy to pay back. But (as I'd hung up on my mom earlier after a really quick I'm-tired-I-don't-want-to-talk-about-this-I'm-going-to-sleep-good-night), I had to text him and explain that I do not need people trying to carve a path out for me.

I just want to do what I want to do. If that involves loosening up on my grades, then so be it. I want to get more involved on the campus, and not just be holed up in my room (like I often am; engineering students do that a lot) doing work.

Lucid: 10-03-2012 01:56 AM

Switch your major to Theatre Arts or something. >:U

But seriously, you need to work something out where they're not so obsessed with your grades. It's not helping you. If they understand that your grades will most likely improve when they stop stressing you out about them, they might back off just a little.

Espy 10-03-2012 01:57 AM

Their thoughts on this is basically "I let you go for a month, and this shit happens?!"

...Anyways. Tired. Not getting anything done, so I will head off and worry about miscellaneous crap later.

Lucid: 10-03-2012 02:00 AM

Yeah. Goodnight Espy.
If you can't work something out, lock them out anyway. They'll be mad as heck at first but they'll have to get used to it. Worst-case scenario: Student loans.

Tiva 10-03-2012 01:39 PM

Actually if you become an independent (meaning you pay for your own schooling and get no support money wise from your parents) You will get a worse rate on student loans (private) But will get more financial aid in the long run because you will become an instate student and get more grants from the government because you are bettering yourself.

Lucid: 10-03-2012 01:55 PM

To be independent as far as college finances go, you have to be over 25, married, or emancipated. My parents never paid a dime for my schooling, but I still had to provide their financial information until I got married. Once I did, though, we got enough federal grant money to completely cover tuition.

Arikana 10-03-2012 04:01 PM

*feels guilty for being on here in a while*

But wowzers! Some amazing DIs this month!! :D

Good job to everyone who had a hand in creating them!! :]

Tiva 10-03-2012 07:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lucid: (Post 1377773)
To be independent as far as college finances go, you have to be over 25, married, or emancipated. My parents never paid a dime for my schooling, but I still had to provide their financial information until I got married. Once I did, though, we got enough federal grant money to completely cover tuition.

Not true in the state of NC. It is a bit of paperwork with the school but you just have to prove that you don't get aid from your parents. Namely by paying your own cellphone bill, car insurance, and housing bills. It also helps if you live over 200 miles away from said parents place of residence. One of my coworkers is 20 and has all ways had independent funding because she was cut off from her parents at 18.

Lucid: 10-03-2012 08:21 PM

Huh, that's really interesting. I didn't know about that.

Damies 10-05-2012 06:05 AM

The items this month are lovely!


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