even besides the gender characteristics, individuals are so unique and different, it just takes a lot of time i guess...so, dont make stereotypes and try to get to know everyone? im not very good at meeting people, especially now in college. its so big!!

Well i know i never would call a girl names or anything o_o i try to be as respecful as i can. What got me with my ex was she alwasy seemed to turn the blame on me and never really owned up for mistakes she made but then again i might have been not paying attention.

I feel i need to find a girl who likes games like i do and can help me communicte a bit better

My problem with mine was that the more time we spent together the more different we actually are

@Lost: I don't get to meet people in college at all xD Well not face to face anyways, I do an online thing. I sometimes feel like I did go to an actual college, I might have a real chance at meeting someone but meh, too scared of all the people lol

@Obbie: It's nice that you at least try. Most guys don't even do that, you know?

thats really good :) im sure youll find someone who appreciates you and who likes games. I've been having trouble finding fellow nerds though, maybe depends on where you are...
edit: i have heard that long term relationships generally do better when the couple is similar to each other. its interesting to be with someone with different hobbies and such, but it can become a problem. not that its impossible..and there are so many people, but there are quiet spots that i can sit at and go online

Well...anyways.

Speaking of games, I'm going to go play one. Bye y'all.

bye!! nice talking with you!!

I have little to no interest in getting married as the institution stands in our society xD.

What institution are you from?

The marriage institution...

ok, cause when I think of Institution I think of the Latter Day Saints (a.k.a Mormons)

Oh hell no, I'm atheist. I just think that the institution of marriage would benefit in our society from some... alterations.

I'm an atheist too ^_^

Not surprising on a site like this, I mean there are definitely Christians aroudn but generally they don't tend to attract the uber conservative sort. But there are also wiccans and pagans and other more dynamic, less controlling religions.

well and we don't really see it when someone posts something that can give them a major sign that he/she is a conservative Christian.

Religion is a major turn off in an avatar site

My brother needed me to do things for him, but now I am back.

Long as it isn't one of those games where if I wanted to do something with you...I wouldn't be able to drag you away within an hour....I don't have a problem with gaming. I like video games. I play one player stuff mainly...but that's because I'm usually alone.

Nothing sexual? I can do that lol

What I am saying is that there are aspects to these sites which would repel the more conservative types. "It takes all kinds", so as long as people aren't intolerant or proselytizing I'm good.

Haha well its hard to say i feel i have an addiction to games but its also my cruch to lean on when im hurt or alone i feel its unhealthy

I feel as if I have an addiction to rping? We all have our problems.

There's nothing unhealthy about video games or mine...but we need to balance real life having a social life with our video games/rps....which I need to follow my own advice >> <<

Yea and im trying to be more social i know games dragged me away from tris and i really love it here heck i wanna try to make Mod position

Hm... well, I have somewhat of an addiction to just being on the computer, not so much an addiction in that in pains me to be away from it, but it is more of a habit and I spend a lot of time on it. But I just don't want to go out and meet people, really.

I feel deprived away from my computer. It is my social life currently .-.

Gas costs too much and no one lives in my city/town/village/whatever That's my friend really. And there isn't anything to do in my town or its twin city....except go to wal-mart pretty much .-.

I agree with this i hate goign out cause i dont like spending money every day or time i leave the house and it always seems to happen

I don't have money to spend....I don't have enough money for the vitamins I need .-.

My friend lives in another state. It wasn't until last year we first met in person though we have known each other since '05. I don't drive anyway so the cost of gas doesn't matter, but there is nothing to really do around here, either, even though I live in a large suburb.

My city has a population of 3k.

I bet you have more to do than us-which it may not be exciting or anything, but I bet ya'll have more.

Oh I definitely have more; by about thirty times over. But it is half old-school, snooty suburb, half arabic ghetto*, with a little bit of run-of-the-mill averageness XD.


*Note that I mean "ghetto" in its original sense of an ethnically isolated neighborhood and in no way derogatory.

Hey, technically the wal-mart that is the only thing to do....isn't even in my town. Arabs live in your area? The only ones I see are the ones that go to the university in another town...

I have no clue of Dearborn -lives under a rock...and wishes it was warmer there-

Tons of stuff to do here, even though it's a small town. Just not enough money...or friends to do them with lol

I played WoW for a bit >.> I wish I could continuously play it, not like for hours in a row, just that I can't pay for it but I'd like to keep playing it. :/

Aw I'm sorry to hear that :(. Yeah I am limited to places I can walk to or get a bus ride or bike to... and all there is to do around here is pretty much shop.

wow....this is all very different, i live in a very crowded and "important" (government s*** is close -_-) area. Every kind of people are around here...

I live in a rural area. Under 3k population : D

FUN! WE HAVE NOTHING!

we have stuff but also...TRAFFIC. D: and these idiots squabbling and attacking each other, very politically charged area -_- (doesnt like the govt..) i dont like getting into debates where everyone has no repsect for each others opinions and tries to talk over them, etc. of course these people are everywhere, not just here...

Everyone's a democrat here....except for me. Which I'm not really a republican either...

Well, if I talk over you....it's because I need to say it before I forget it. I could forget it by the time you're done.

I don't care about politics so I'm independent or I just neglect myself from politicians because they are so corrupted so that way they can get a next big check

I'm not voting anymore considering how the last vote went and how nothing has changed (I voted the opposite). Though you can't say that's Obama's fault unless you think it's because he pissed off his own party....because aren't democrats still the majority? -can't remember-

ANYWAY! I got my coke rewards bag in today :3

I never vote cause I feel like my opinions don't matter.

It's the Republicans that's the majority (It's a religion reason).