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Asami 07-23-2012 01:48 PM

why did.this have to.happen???
 
So today I was woken up by a cop and detective because my brother had accidentally bought a stolen laptop. Now he might get charged with theft and such and he wanted to join the military so if that happens that goes down the toilet. My mom and eldest brother are freaking out and yelling and now my brother just left because of their reaction. I tried to be supportive and tried talking to him about it but my eldest brother started laughing hysterically saying "this doesn't just affect you it affects us all." That is true but he didn't have to laugh.

I don't know what to do. I am afraid for my brother and what will happen. They told him he could take this 6 month course that's kinda like community service and it will be dropped but should he even be charged? Its pretty unfair to me. Plus he might not even be able to do the program because your name has to be put in and picked (effect..) but the cop did like him and such

Idk... I'm just really stressed about this. I don't want my brother to be charged with something he didn't do.

Asami 07-23-2012 01:53 PM

Also now my brother may get kicked out of the house because of my dads work (hard to explain)

Tiva 07-23-2012 01:59 PM

If it can be proven that he didn't know it was stolen he should be fine. Also if he is under 18 the record would be wiped clean so he could join the Military.
Your family has right to freak out and be upset, but they really shouldn't take it out on you.

Lunaryon 07-23-2012 02:11 PM

You need to go to the lot of them, and slap them each once on the face. It sounds like they are acting histarical, and they need to be shaken out of it.

If he didn't know it was stolen I'm pretty sure they will have to drop the charge.

Asami 07-23-2012 02:29 PM

Hes older than me so there's no chance of that tiva

//sigh
this just really sucks. Hes gone now and I fear when my dad comes home because hes going to yell and its going to be scary...

Ekilachan 07-23-2012 02:30 PM

That sucks that happened. :/

But like others have said, since he never knew it was a stolen laptop, he should be fine and the charges be dropped.

Edit:
Oh, that's not good... It's not fair that your dad is gonna yell when its noone's fault... :/

Asami 07-23-2012 02:32 PM

I hope so but the way things are going I have no idea...

Saiyouri 07-23-2012 03:48 PM

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OMG I am so sorry to hear that hun *Hugs*
I so hope he doesn't get charged. If he had no clue
that it was stolen he should not get charged. ; ; I
hope you all are able to prove that he is innocent.
I also hope things go well for you all when your dad
comes home *Hugs tightly* I'm here for you hun if you
just want to rant it out and get it all out of your
system. ^_^ *hugs*


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Asami 07-23-2012 04:08 PM

Thanks sai
I'm dreading tonight..
my brother is still gone. I know my dad will yell even if my brother isn't home

Saiyouri 07-23-2012 04:17 PM

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*hugs tightly* I am so sorry sweetheart and you're welcome <3
I hope your brother comes home to try to talk to your dad so he
doesn't yell too much ; ; Or at least call you guys to talk
about it. This is so horrible. I really hope there is someway
to prove his innocence. I know things like that are hard to do.
Especially if he buys it from a person who stole it or knew it
was stolen. ; ; God I hope this gets fixed out. I don't like the
idea he might lose the chance to enter the miliary from this
small mistake he didn't even know he made. ; ; I am so sorry
this is happening sweetie ; ; *hugs* I so hope things don't
go that bad for you tonight when he gets home ; ; Good luck. <3
*hugs* *tosses good luck your way*


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Asami 07-23-2012 05:27 PM

Yeah it just sucks
he came back home because the detective called then had to go to work...
apparently he will be charged for sure. No way around it. But he still has the chance of the program.
Everything is just falling to pieces.

Saiyouri 07-23-2012 05:46 PM

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Well at least he can still get into the military. That is good.
At least. ; ; God I hope he can prove he is innocent of this.
I so wish you all the best of luck with that. I know it will
be hard to do. I will keep my hopes up for everyone hun. *hugs*


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Asami 07-23-2012 05:48 PM

Yeah maybe maybe not
my dads home now..

Saiyouri 07-23-2012 05:55 PM

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OMG Good luck hun *hugs* I will
be here for you for the rest of the night if you want to
scream at someone *hugs*


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littl3chocobo 07-23-2012 06:02 PM

is he the abusive brother?

Asami 07-23-2012 06:09 PM

Its not its the one that's a year older than me.

littl3chocobo 07-23-2012 06:10 PM

well damn.... if it was the abusive one i would have called it karma

Asami 07-23-2012 06:18 PM

Yeah my dad is raging and cant wait for him to come home though
//sigh
I told the younger one to go on a walk when he comes home

Saiyouri 07-23-2012 06:25 PM

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I so hope your dad calms down soon. ; ; It's not good to
be that stressed and upset. ; ; I really hope it all
works out for you. ; ; *hugs*


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Asami 07-23-2012 06:30 PM

Well its all bad stuff that's going down
and this may compromise my dads work and he may get fired or we might have to kick my brother out.

Saiyouri 07-23-2012 06:52 PM

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That sounds so horrible. I know this is none of my
business but why would it get your dad fired? I never
heard something like that before. ; ; I so hope he
doesn't lose his job over this at all. ; ; So hope this
all gets cleared up soon. For everyone's sake.


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Yokuutsu 07-23-2012 08:05 PM

Possession is nine-tenths of the law. And you should tell him that he should buy from a store and not someone he knows. People cannot be trusted. I know that because one of my friends stole over 800 dollars worth of my shit.

Before I figured out who it was. Then I ditched him.

Though it isn't really his fault. Did he tell the cops who he bought the laptop from? They could possibly get his money and he could give them the laptop and no one loses except the people stealing.

Asami 07-23-2012 08:14 PM

Yeah he told them but hes still getting charged
not to mention the lose of the money he used to buy the laptop

Saiyouri 07-23-2012 08:32 PM

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That is messed up. He
shouldn't get charged if he can easily fix the problem ~_~


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Ekilachan 07-24-2012 12:27 AM

I'm sorry to hear that it got worse. :/

I hope things will get better soon for you too. And I'm always here to listen as well.

ettah 07-24-2012 01:00 AM

it wouldn't be right for him to get charged,
and if he has a receipt from wherever he bought it from,
definitely use that in his defense.
Always keep receipts when you buy expensive things.


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