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Today one of my so called friend called me a drama llama because of a problem I had a few weeks back with this gal who ran a club for Ball Jointed Dolls. I'm not a drama llama I just had some personal problems with people who don't listen to my suggestion or ideas and jump the gun before I can finish. What can I do to tell people I am not a drama llama at all?

..."Drama"..."Llama"...? That's really damn mature. I don't know what exactly it is you did, so I can't help you much...Sorry...

I don't think you need to say anything at all. Consider the source/person who said it.

But a real friend would listen to your concerns and not dismiss them that easily. Name calling is rather childish as Espy said and the only thing you should do to prove you aren't is nothing.

You are not responsible for other peoples behavior, you can however take the higher road and let their actions reflect on them. I know it's not easy as the first instinct anyone has is to defend themselves.

If you know you aren't a Drama Llama, leave the drama to them and make themselves look foolish. While you stay clean and tons more mature.

Firstly, the person who called you that, is not a true friend. Secondly, you should ditch them and them calling you that is really immature. Just because you talk about your problems once in a while, does not make you a "drama llama." :/

The fact that I've seen you post this up on three different forums is starting to make me consider that you might be one.
Don't make such a fuss out of something small. They're not your friend. Move on.

Was this posted here or on different websites?

Maybe this just really bothers the OP. What you consider small, might not be to someone else or they might have less/different experience than you do.

For example, my 12 year old gets very upset when people call him names, like stupid. I could be called a f-in D-bag and I would laugh at the person.

The best way to not be considered a drama llama is to just shrug it off and remember: In high school, these people aren't all gonna stick around. They'll all be memories, stories to tell, visions of the past, in just a few short years. College and the adult world are so much different, I promise.

Happy llama
sad llama
totally insane llama
super llama
drama llama
big fat momma llama
(I kinda had to...)


But anyways. I normally just ignore them. By trying to prove you dont like being a "drama llama" you are just creating drama. So i suggest just ignore them.

I don't find you to be a drama llama anyway so I don't know why someone would call you that; however, without drama life would be boring. So they can take their boringness and shove it Xp

You don't put dramas on here and causing problems for everyone for your entertainment.

Why would you even say that anyway? 8 n 8

Ignore them, I guess. Kinda hard to judge your behaviour completely out of context, but I don't know. Perhaps it's a little dramatic to allow this to really bother you when someone calls you a name. Just continue on and let them get over it.