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Break up issues, well sort of. I don't know where my boyfriend and my relationship is heading, are we going to be together? or is it over? I just feel bad and he really killed my ego when he told me about the other girl T_T

Okay, just think calmly and breathe slowly. What did he exactly tell you about the other girl he is seeking?

Yes lets here what he said about this girl first. :x

Okay,
well the last day of school year, when we were sitting on the couch, he told this "See.. before you, I loved this other girl for a year. I thought the feelings went away but now they are back.. And I really don't know what to do." thats exactly what he said. And then for some stupid reason I didn't say anything to him even though I was a bit upset, I got sadder as days went by. And then I finally told him how I really felt and he said "Babe, I love you, I really really love you, but I love her just a little more" that jerk >_> . And then we went a break and then he told her and she said she didn't feel the same way for him. And now he is acting all strange. Things are not the same as they used to be at all.

Have you sat down and talked to him after the girl told him she didn't feel the same? It could be that he is feeling foolish and hurt. Hurt because he got dumped and foolish for trying to leave you for some old flame.

He didn't give me the chance and we can't see each other over the summer at all /=

Try to give him time to think and act before he gets even more hurt but sometimes, it's good to show that you are always there for him when he is feeling down and everything. My boyfriend is the same way.

Since you can't see him for a while write him a email to tell him you are there for him if he wants to talk about it. And then just wait for him to come around. Like Flaria said, he probably needs some time to think. He will come around eventually. :3

Yea I am giving him that, he knows i will be there for him through everything no matter what happens. Even if we break up we will be good friends. We just don't talk as much anymore and that bothers me sometimes. I am going to let him do his mistakes because I am his first girlfriend and he needs to learn from his mistakes, but I will be there for him.

Already talked to him about it and everything. I think he is over the other girl by now. You guys are right, he just needs some time, but I think he doesn't have feelings for me anymore but I may be wrong.

He will never forget your love for him and what you did for him was the best. Yes, good for him to learn from his mistakes but best to take advice from somebody that knows him truly well.

I hope he doesn't forget, he is hard headed. Oh his best friend already tried that, but he didn't listen.

I think he still loves you, he is just confused about it right now. :3

I hope xD i really hope he does. But we don't talk as much so i feels forgotten ):

Best thing is give it a bit of time I guess. Flaria gives better advice cause I suck with relationships. All I know is Communication and space are important. Communication so you know how the other feels and space so your not crowding the other. :3

lol yea those things are very important (: from what i know so far is that he is doing good and I am giving him all the space he needs XP

All that is left is time. :3