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Hmm...stuff happens and I kind of think you both need to talk about it once things calm down some.

Yeah...I just wish I knew if I completely screwed up the one amazing thing in my life...

I may also be trying my damnedest not to cry because I really kinda hate myself right now...

Hey. A relationship is not just one way. I think it requires communication and compromise from both people for it to work.

Hence my recommendation that you both talk after things calm down some.

I'm really hoping I get a response soon...

But I'm pretty sure I just massively screwed up...

Well I hope so too. I'm afraid there isn't much I can do except emotional support.

I know...

-huggles the Kali-

He's mad at me...but I really was making dinner...it took us literally an hour to cook dinner...

Although the eggplant cakes were totally worth it...

That sounds yummy.

If he's angry fine...that's valid. I don't think he'll be angry forever. Stuff happens. Personally I've gone more than a week with no contact with certain people and while maybe I think they don't like me anymore, but when I see them again I'm happy...just me I guess.

He's got every right to be upset...

I'm just glad he's texting me so I know he at least doesn't hate me...

I dunno, I guess.

I'm glad you're speaking again.

Yeah...but now he said I've lost his trust...I just don't know what to do...he is literally the only thing that makes me happy...

...it sounds like there must be more to it than what happened last night.

Do you mind telling me the reason he says that?

I don't really know...he said it was just because of tonight...

Kali, I'm going to be blunt about this, and this is just my opinion and I don't hate hyjin at all so here we go.

He's being childish and immature. One night, and missing one call should NOT break a relationship. Nor should it break trust. STUFF HAPPENS. Relationships require a certain amount of trust and part of it (I think) is knowing that sometimes stuff happens that's out of our control so unless it becomes a habit, I don't think one time should be a basis to lose trust for ANY reason, at least not on this particular issue.

I don't hate hyjin and I don't want to hurt you Kali but this is my unedited thoughts on this.

I know...and I think he's starting to realize that a bit...