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So, here's the story. I got bored and hit the bar and started drinking with some girl. We went back to her place, did stuff and now she's passed the eff out. I am not tired and I cant leave because I cant relock all her chain locks from the outside and this is a bad neighborhood. I'd feel really bad if I just left, leaving her door unlocked and she got broken into and hurt. So, I'm stuck for now. Bored. Awake. Alone. At some strangers house.

Talk? Please!!!???

Edit: I'm poly lmao relax

gj :U

hay gurl hay
is it just me or are you on every avatar site that exists? of course, the only way i could know this is if i was also on every avatar site that exists... the world is crazy.

If you're just gonna be condencending then fuck off. I can post the same shit on all the avi sites if I want. Lol.

Well...At least you had a fun night? XD

Aren't you married though?

I would have just left. Or try to wake her up so she can lock the door. Who knows, maybe she sobered up already?

You want people to talk to you, okay. I'll talk to you.

I'll tell you that if you are indeed engaged, which I've gleaned from several different postings, you really need to NOT do the whole 'sleeping with other women' thing? Not to mention, leaving a girl drunk alone in a place - regardless of whether or not you "want" to be caught there - is a sleazy, dickish move, and proves you are pretty much the kind of douchebag that winds up on the six o'clock news every other day.

So if you can't leave her, then DON'T. Wait for her to wake up. Take her somewhere nice. Maybe make her breakfast, leave her a nice note, blend her a smoothie or something. Maybe clean her bathroom and wash her robe, so she has a nice shower when she wakes up?

If this is a one-night-stand, at least have the decency to make it worth her while. I may be a guy, and even -I- realize that a screw-and-run is wrong.

I'm not trying to be judgmental, but would a one night stand be worth ruining what you have with your fiance? We all have our vices, and I think it is important to pinpoint why we do these things. Because once we figure that out we can find better ways of controlling our actions and emotions.

Lol calm down everyone I am in a poly relationship. Jesus christ you assholes judge quickly without asking lmao

No, you never mentioned it. We judged as appropriate because you never mentioned this, and if you aren't aware of that then what you did was a total asshole move.

I'm not fighting over something that really doesnt matter. My fiancée doesnt care what I do with other people. It wasnt an asshole move f you are poly. Do you even understand how those work? Lol

And just adding: my fiancée laughed when I told her this story and said, "smooth move Shamus."

I'm pretty sure we get the idea, but without foreknowledge of a poly relationship, the default assumption is monogamy. And if your partner expects a monogamous relationship, then that WOULD have been pretty bad, but if you have already talked about it and agreed on it, then yeah, there's nothing there to complain about.

Coda: Yeah, I forgot this site doesnt already know I am poly so, I admit I should have put that down but forgot to.

We agreed as we got into the relationship that we would be poly amd we talked after getting engaged and agreed it would still be a poly relationship.

woah jesus who's being condescending

Polygamy is different. If I had known, I wouldn't have thought you were in a monogamous relationship.

You know... maybe you could call up one of your kids to come watch her if they're old enough. Or your fiancee? Perhaps she'd be willing to hang out for a while.