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Nope, I haven't seen the King and I. Sorry. D:
Why? What's it about? owo


@Feythfull: What item is your current avatar's skirt pose from? owo <3

The skirt is from Dancing Flames

and the King and I is a good movie but the king had many wives =w=

We arent really married its just a joke xD

Fen has started livestream!

she had to finish eating

I would love to do this but I'm not 18 until Friday, and right after that is my finals...How long are you going to be doing these lessons. I only know how to pixel with MS Paint and would love to learn to use other programs.

Sounds interesting...I'll consider watching it one day. >w<


So what's this joke that's got the four of you in a four-way marriage? owo

=w= ari.. are you even interested in learning?

You know, as long as you can be faithful and fair to all of your spouses there's nothing ETHICALLY wrong with polygamy.

Whether it's MORALLY wrong or not is a matter of belief and opinion.

Whether it's LEGALLY wrong is unrelated to either of the other two points.

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Heads up, Trisphee terms of service prohibit giving instructions on how to pirate software, so unless Paint Tool SAI really does have a free non-trial version, sharing a cracked version or sharing how to bypass authorization/activation is against the rules.

I'm there right now. >w>

How can you be faithful to one spouse when you're with another? >w> #makesnosense

Faithfulness doesn't NECESSARILY mean exclusivity. It means that you don't hide things from your partners. (This might mean exclusivity if your partner would be upset about you sleeping with someone else!) If you showed favoritism towards one over another, that wouldn't be being faithful to the second one. It's all about knowing each other's boundaries and respecting the shared beliefs of what's appropriate behavior. It's not impossible. It's just difficult.

(I'm monogamous but I do know polyamorous people, and historically speaking none of the world's major religions -- including Christianity! -- have forbidden it; it's actually something of a recent development. In terms of Christianity, the restriction to being married to only one person was said in reference to the requirements for elders and deacons.)

How i see it is like a mother and her children. Should a mother pick favourites with her offspring and love one more than the other?

I don't think so.

Yet, her children are not clones of each other; they are different. She can't love them all the same way because they are different people, BUT she can love them all the same amount, just for different reasons.

If a mother spends time with one child for a few hours, does that mean she's being biased and unfaithful to her other child? Nope. She just giving them each valuable attention exclusively once in a while.

Of course, this is not for everyone as even with children, sibling rivalry occurs. It's in human nature to get jealous *shrugs*. But not EVERYONE gets jealous. Just like not EVERY CHILD dislikes their sibling.

Polygamy can work with mutual trust and understanding. Just like any relationship, you need to know where you and your partner(s) stand with no dark secrets. Once everything is discussed and worked out, polygamy can be JUST AS beautiful as monogamy.

Pixel class will be starting within the next 30 minutes :3

OH. SPEAKING OF WHICH. Can I have a form?