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Maybe you two need some time apart for a little bit, like go hang out with your friends for a few days. Distance makes the heart grow fonder, maybe you two just need quality time for yourselves? I hope it gets better for you Pinkie! <3

Zaoki: Oh no we are good we just live in such a small space that little things that shouldnt make a person angry do lol thats all.

Blade: Yeah I know...what we need to do is have a day together just us but money is tight right now so its another things we fight over lol

Money is never a nice thing to fight about and yeah I understand, me and my boyfriend have problems over the same thing. Maybe watch a movie on TV and make some homemade dinner or play some board games, something at home that is exciting that you two haven't done in a while. Be creative c: I'm sorry if I'm not good at advice, but I really hope it gets better for you and as long you two love each other, everything should be alright. <3

Oh yes I know that...and we dont have cable lol or bored games...hes a gamer so when hes at home he is usually on his computer....me im usually sitting there counting the shadows on the wall or staring into nothing lol....the one thing thats bad with him is that he only thinks of himself but im trying to break that lol

that doesn't sound too good

Yeah, he needs to step his game up and think about you and bring your computer over there and watch shows or something to pass the time.. :/ That doesn't sound too good though...Are you happy with him? That is the main thing...

Zaoki: No its rather bad but...I mean we have our great days then our good days and okay ones then we have the bad ones...today and yesterday are bad ones...but the good and great days out way the bad ones...But I am trying to convince him that we need to move...and if we do move and to where I want to that would break the connection to his dad and friends that causes alot of our fighting...the one thing I constently tell him is "You know its sad when you and your friends and you and your dad go out to more movies and supper then you and your girlfriend..." and its true and sad...thats what him and his dad are doing right now...at a movie then going to eat something and once again I am at home eating alone lol...its sad I tell you

Blade: lol we live together and yes I am happy I love him with all my heart and I know he loved me...even when we fight he tells me he loves me...I swear I hear it from him at least 30+ times aday that he loves me so...it dose make up for some of the fighting just at times I wish he could see the things he dose instead of repeating his actions

Pinky, im sorry if this seems out of bounds, but if he only thinsk abotu him self than hes not a good person. especialy when he dosint help the girl crying infront of him. you deserve some one better

I'm so sorry D: it is sad that he goes and does more stuff with his friends and dad than with you.. You two definitely need to have a talk.

Mon: Its not out of bounds I have heard that countless times....in all fairness I told him to leave me be because I was made and fed up with him so he did he left me alone even when I was sitting there bawling so I cant really hold that against him...at least thats what I feel...He did try and console me but I was pissed off and angry and upset the last thing I wanted was the person who made me that way touching me...so I did tell him to fuck off and leave me be....but I know what your saying dear.

Blade: It is yes but he dose spend alot of money on me...I mean I dont have a job currently....so he pays for me to live...everything. Rent, food, my smokes...and other smokeables (pothead) as well as bills and gas and everything....so...I really am tied between what to think. I know alot of the tension comes from me not working...I have been jobless since december...havent found a job yet...

There is a saying my mother always said.
"Words mean nothing only actions do"
Its why she never believed in saying 'I love you' or anything like that. Because eventually words can become empty and meaningless, and that's dangerous especially when they are to the person who is speaking them.

I'm in no place to judge your bf because I don't know him outside of what you're telling me but do yourself a favor and make sure you can find enough of his actions that back up the words before you begin believing them.

Zaoki: Oh I know dear and there are lots of actions that support his words beleive me. Some times I see him in a light that no one else dose but only because I know him better then anyone I feel. I mean some days hes a complete dick...but other days hes the greatest man to walk this earth. And he dose simple things that shows me he loves me...just sometimes I question it then when I do I look back over the three years and call my self stupid for questioning it...

Just don't over idolize or sell yourself short.

I know dear...trust me if it was really bad I wouldnt be here I would leave lol. We have had our trials...we have broken up and gotten back together and all that jazz....

well hopefully you can get through this rough patch

He sounds like my boyfriend xD My boyfriend is a huge gamer and I usually am left on my own while I'm at his house but he does show me that he loves me with little actions but they leave a big impact on me but I need to be up front sometimes of what I want and how some things need to change sometimes. As long as you two love each other that can overcome anything. c: