my sister is teaching a class about 'the philosphy of love and sex' this semester at her university, we send each other feminist literature all the time, i can't wait for her to see this, we've talked about this song before.
I know it's not rapey, and even said as much. But even when you ARE paying attention to the context, it's promoting the idea that it's okay to say things you don't mean and that you should expect to have to second-guess what your romantic partner is telling you. And that's something that INFURIATES me -- no, it's NOT okay to say one thing and mean something else. The ASSUMPTION that this is a thing that happens is the reason why date rape is such a controversial subject instead of being an open-and-shut case kind of thing.
So yeah, I GET the song. I just don't think it's the kind of thing that needs to be played on repeat in public. :/
Likewise, I GET Last Christmas and Christmas Shoes, and they certainly have their places in the right context, but they have meaning that's being completely being ignored when they're overplayed the way they are. Neither of these songs is about celebrating the holiday season; they're both about heartbreaking pain during a time when one is supposed to be happy.
(Santa Baby meanwhile is just trashy. You're welcome to like it if you want. I don't have any objective complaints about it. But subjectively, I can't stand it.)
Mega Man: The Light of Will (Mega Man / Green Lantern crossover: In the lead-up to the events of Mega Man 2, Dr. Wily has discovered emotional light technology. How will his creations change how humankind thinks about artificial intelligence? Sadly abandoned. Sufficient Velocity x-post)
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Ehehe. *rubs back of head* I'm actually in a good mood overall right now. Those songs just really manage to push my buttons.
Mega Man: The Light of Will (Mega Man / Green Lantern crossover: In the lead-up to the events of Mega Man 2, Dr. Wily has discovered emotional light technology. How will his creations change how humankind thinks about artificial intelligence? Sadly abandoned. Sufficient Velocity x-post)
Games by Coda (updated 11/24/2019 - New game: Jigsawmino) Art by Coda (updated 4/20/2020 - untitled original music)
i mean, i definitely get it. stuff like this played in public constantly is another issue entirely (for me) from actually enjoying a song. there are plenty of songs i personally enjoy on the whole that i would never want to hear outside of the privacy of my own business.
Lol. So on a slight topic change, I get to do most of the Christmas decorating in the cafe at the museum tonight.
Even though everyone else loved it last year, my boss HATES the homemade ornaments...guess what's going on the tree again this year?
;D
I don't like Little Drummer Boy but it doesn't infuriate me like some of the others do. (It's a musically uninteresting song with a drone and sound effects talking about banging a percussion instrument for a baby, which by all rights ought to terrify the poor child.)
Mega Man: The Light of Will (Mega Man / Green Lantern crossover: In the lead-up to the events of Mega Man 2, Dr. Wily has discovered emotional light technology. How will his creations change how humankind thinks about artificial intelligence? Sadly abandoned. Sufficient Velocity x-post)
Games by Coda (updated 11/24/2019 - New game: Jigsawmino) Art by Coda (updated 4/20/2020 - untitled original music)