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My recommendation: Go for it. You would NOT be the first AFAB person to use drag as a way to express masculinity. It's not appropriation if you're already part of that culture -- and you are. The last thing the non-gender-normative community needs is artificial lines drawn to segregate parts of the community from itself, when we've been trying so hard to bring them together.

actually, i was wanting more to do the over-exaggerated femininity of the Drag Queens. and there turns out to be a term for a female doing that. Faux Queen. I'mma be a motherfuckin' glamazon Faux Queen.

I knew that's what you meant and that's exactly what I was talking about. The overexaggerated femininity of drag queens ends up emphasizing masculinity because that's the cultural association people have with drag queens.

I hate when people ("friends") think they're being "funny" by making jokes about my asexuality. Like how I'll find a man (or woman) and move away and have a family and leave them all alone when I get my life together. Or "joke" about how I just am not interested in them, as though I am actually interested in all other men.
Like....we've been over this a million times and I am not amused.

(:D Oh! A fellow Ace! What a surprise! I sympathize yo. -_- Why is it so hard to grasp that I don't crush on anything but The Twilight Zone???)



Ahhhhhhhh >n< I don't wanna get sick but I think I'm getting sick! ;-; I've been infected...

And the concept of "I can still find men and women visually appealing without wanting them" seems to be extremely difficult.

Same! >.< Ugh, mega big feels! When I see shirtless buff men, all I think about is how awesome they must be at everything, like, champion yo. Not, "Oh wow, what a hunk! I'd tap that." I only wish I had some muscles like that... ;u; and can lift a frickin' couch. But I have snowman arms. xD

*throws a party for their fellow Aces* I'm a bit more complicated, because I'm also Demipanromantic.

That sounds...potentially very complicated. What is demipanromantic? (I'm too lazy to look it up myself.)

Lol...my train of thought sometimes...
*sees the word party* -> will there be cake? -> *thinks about the cake called "better than sex cake"* -> but every cake is better than sex for asexuals...

It's a combination of "demiromantic" (only finds romantic attraction in people once they've already established a close bond otherwise) and "panromantic" (has no gender preference in romantic relationships).

Cake is better than sex.
People who doubt that just never had really good cake.

I'm not that much of a sweet-tooth and yet cake is still the best thing I love to bake! x) Not in a million years would sex ever top cake!

Thanks Coda!

Ahhhh...I kinda want to make cake now, but I don't have all the stuff for it. Probably will just stick with my original plan and do sugar cookies today. Just gotta clear off a table and wash a few things.

Fuck. Just got up and discovered that I accidentally left a skein of yarn out. And now it's a mess of yarn. And part of it has been chewed through, but I can't tell if it was only chewed through or if Batty actually managed to eat some of it.
I'm so mad at myself right now for not double-checking before going to bed!

My Achilles finally calmed down enough to let me do at least a tiny bit of walking to look for decorations. But clearance sales already started apparently, so most things have been cleared out.

Got my dog a new toy and she absolutely loves it, at least.